LASCI Family Expands with Edgepark-UroMed Partnership


Life After Spinal Cord Injury began nearly four years ago with the goal of becoming a place for support and inspiration within the spinal cord injury community that we serve.  We’re proud to share that LASCI is now the largest online peer support community for friends with SCI — in the world!

EPbenefitschartThe LASCI community is continuing to grow in strength each day, thanks to a new partnership with our sponsors, Edgepark and UroMed. We are excited to formally announce that UroMed has joined the Edgepark family!

About the Edgepark-UroMed Partnership

UroMed and Edgepark, two of the leading distributors of urological and continence care supplies, are now a unified team. We provide convenient, nationwide home delivery to individuals with conditions such as Spinal Cord Injury, Spina Bifida, Multiple Sclerosis, Transverse Myelitis, Prostate Cancer and BPH.

EPbenefitschart2Now, we’ve combined all the things we do best – excellent service, comprehensive product choice and fast, free delivery – to provide you more options and even greater convenience than before, including.

  • Extensive insurance access to cover more of your medical supply needs and help save you money
  • Contracted with more than 1,200 health plans nationwide (preferred provider for most)
  • Accept Medicare, State Medicaid plans in 29 states and all major private/MCO contracts
  • A one-stop shop for all of your Urological and Continence care needs
    • Catheters, incontinence, ostomy, impotence and supplies for many related medical conditions
    • All major manufacturers, including Coloplast, Bard/Rochester Medical, Hollister, Covidien, Teleflex Rusch, Wellspect and more
    • Knowledgeable, caring representatives to help you choose the right products
  • Nationwide distribution network for fast, free shipping, right to your home
  • Once processed, orders ship to 99 percent of the U.S. in 1 – 2 business days

To learn more about how our partnership can benefit you, please call us today at 1-866-528-2142 or contact us online.


What This Partnership Means for LASCI

Life After Spinal Cord Injury will continue to grow as the leading online community for peer support, lifestyle articles and daily resources for friends who use wheelchairs.  Join more than 36,000 friends on our Facebook page to take part in the daily fun!

Our in-person, onsite events will expand as well, nationwide! Stay tuned to our blog and our social media pages for updates on the next LASCI event taking place in a town near you.  Learn more about LASCI here.

LASCI: Motivational Events At Facilities Nationwide

As a father of twins, Bert has a special place in his heart for helping children.

As a father of twins, Bert has a special place in his heart for helping children.

LASCI Founder Bert Burns’ desire to make a positive difference in the lives of people with disabilities also led him to create a free motivational program for peer support and rehabilitation groups called Life After Spinal Cord Injury. LASCI is sponsored by Edgepark and UroMed.

Through LASCI, Bert devotes considerable time as a motivational speaker for children with disabilities, rehabilitation programs, medical education seminars and other community events. Bert explains his reason for reaching out is, “I hope to convince patients in wheelchairs that they can still do all the things they want to do and more. They will just have to do them differently.”

Bert Burns racing at the 1992 Paralympics.

Bert Burns racing at the 1992 Paralympics.

While presenting, Bert inspires others by sharing his story of winning a Gold Medal in the 1992 Paralympics and how he became a successful entrepreneur. He also gives his perspective on:

  • Work/School
  • Dating
  • Sexuality
  • Marriage
  • Children
  • Sports
  • Bladder/Bowel Management
LASCI exists as a free motivational program that helps connect and support people who have spinal cord injury or another condition that requires their use of a wheelchair.

LASCI exists as a free motivational program that helps connect and support people who have spinal cord injury or another condition that requires their use of a wheelchair.

Invite LASCI to Your Next Event

rp_bertwscigroup.jpgLife After Spinal Cord Injury is currently accepting speaking invitations.  To learn more about Bert’s story, or to invite LASCI to speak to your organization, please visit or call 1-800-841-1233.

About the UroMed-Edgepark Family
Headquartered in Suwanee, GA [a suburb of Atlanta], UroMed is a leading national supply company that provides catheters and urological products to patients with Medicare, Medicaid and private insurance. Many of our patients have conditions like Spinal Cord Injury, Spina Bifida, or Multiple Sclerosis. UroMed is a nationally accredited organization, a Medicare provider and a participant in most state Medicaid plans. UroMed also partners with thousands of private health insurance providers and health plans to provide patients with single-use catheters, catheter kits and incontinence products.

UroMed and Edgepark, two of the leading distributors of urological and continence care supplies, are now working as one team. We’ve combined all the things we do best — excellent service, comprehensive product choice and free, fast delivery — to provide you more options and even greater convenience along with expanded insurance coverage.

For more information, please visit  or call 1-800-841-1233.



Navigating Marriage from the Seat of a Chair by Bert Burns

Bert, Joy, Will and Emma acted as LASCI’s reporters in London during the 2012 Paralympics.

Editor’s Note:  This is our second article in a series on dating and relationships.  The first story discussed dating, and this one is about marriage.  Now that you’ ve found your special someone, you might be talking about getting hitched.  Below, LASCI founder Bert Burns, a C6-7 quadriplegic, shares his thoughts on navigating marriage as he relays some personal examples from his own 17-year relationship that began the day he laid eyes on a young recreation therapist named Joy Wetzler.

Q:  As a couple approaches the idea of marriage, what advice would you give for handling family members who are concerned about their loved one marrying a person with a disability?

A:  It’s pretty common for family members to inject their opinions and concerns into your relationship.  This happens with everyone, not just couples that include a person with a disability.  In this case, I say get to know the family of your significant other very well, and let them get to know you. Show them that you’re a regular person who just happens to be rolling, not walking. Show them that and make sure they know you’re looking out for the best interests of their son or daughter.  You love their son or daughter just as much as anyone else would.  Show them how you can make your life together work so it’s not a burden on your spouse all the time.  At the end of the day, concerns are just that. But your relationship is between you and the person you love, and what you do with it is up to the two of you – assuming that you are both over 18.

Q:  How do you adjust your living arrangements to move in together, after marriage or if you choose to do so beforehand?

A: Most of the time, a couple will decide to move together into the home of the person who’s using the wheelchair because it’s already accessible.  The other person’s home may be too, so you just have to decide which place is better in terms of accessibility and still makes you happy as your home.  The biggest concerns when choosing a place to live usually revolve around access to the bathroom and kitchen areas.  Most of the time, couples choose one-level homes or an apartment on the ground floor. If you are moving into a high rise, make sure there’s an elevator.

During LASCI events, participants will often ask Bert about dating, marriage, parenting and other questions about family relationships.

Q: How do you pop “The Question”?

A: Everyone is different, that experience is no different than if you’re able bodied.  As a guy in a wheelchair, you don’t get down on one knee but everything else is the same.

In my case, I met my wife Joy while I was on a business trip to Kansas City in 1995. The day I came into The Rehabilitation Center of Kansas City, I met Joy because she worked there as a recreational therapist. I happened to see her working and thought, I need to go talk to her; she’s pretty. And that’s what I did!

We had a whirlwind relationship from the very first day we met. I made a big to-do of our engagement, arranging a special dinner at Cinderella’s castle at Disneyland. I had Cinderella deliver the ring in a glass slipper.

How you propose depends on your personality and what you like. Make it yours and make it unique.

Joy and Bert tackled parenting as a team, and that came in handy because they had twins!

Q: What are some things we should consider when having “the kid talk”?

A: Are you both working? Are you ready for children? Who is going to be the primary caregiver for the kids or are you splitting the duties?  Set all of that up before you decide to have kids.  Talk about the process of having kids before you try. Sometimes things work normal and you’ll be fine.  Sometimes you need alternative medicine like in vitro. Adoption is an option too.  Some of my friends have their own children together and adopted too.  There are so many ways to make a family together, be open to all of your options!

Q: What is parenting like from the perspective of using a wheelchair?

A: Personally, I’m a really involved dad and try to stay busy with the kids a lot and give Joy a lot of breaks.

For example, when my children were just born, I had adaptive changing tables and cribs made for me, so I could reach the babies more easily.  I would roll up under the crib that was raised to be accessible for me – and the side would swing open like a door so I could roll up and slide a kid right off onto my lap. I could roll under the changing table too, and I had the diaper materials ready on each side so I could take of business.

My kids, Will and Emma, see me like any other dad.  Emma recently wrote a paper for a school project where she talks about the way she sees me as a father, and it meant so much to me. She says, “Why walk when you can roll?” Here is her take on having a parent who uses a wheelchair:

Bert and Joy like taking trips together that allow both of them to enjoy quality time together.

Q: What are some keys to success for a long-lasting marriage?

A: Same as any marriage, the keys to success are the same.  They revolve around talking and communication.  Also, don’t depend on the able-bodied spouse to be your caregiver. You married them to be your spouse. If you want a nurse, go get one.  That keeps them from feeling overburdened.

Keep in mind also that your loved one married someone who uses a wheelchair. They married a person , not a patient. So if it’s something you can do, do it for yourself. It will make your relationship healthier.

In our case, Joy and I focus on work arounds for any can’t-dos with can-dos. I’m lucky in that I can maintain my independence and am able to do almost everything on my own, but there are still things that I sometimes can’t do.

When we go on vacation, for example, walks on the beach and hikes into the mountains are out of the question.  So instead, we go on cruises, hang by the pool, scuba dive and snow ski together.  Our quality time together works out just fine!

Fantastic words of advice for any relationship!

Q: Would you recommend counseling or other support programs for marriages that are having trouble?

A: Yes, absolutely! Before you get married, I strongly recommend pre-marital counseling as a way to get any major issues out on the table beforehand.

If marriage or sexual health counseling is something that might help your current relationship, I’d recommend Dr. Mitch Tepper. He brings a lifetime of first-hand experience with chronic conditions and disability to his work. After growing up with Crohn’s Disease (IBD), Mitch was introduced to disability at age 20 after breaking his neck, causing him to also use a wheelchair.  Dr. Tepper is an American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) Certified Sexuality Educator and AASECT Certified Sexuality Counselor, and a tireless advocate.  Contact Dr. Tepper at:

More Resources on Marriage
PN Magazine, published by the Paralyzed Veterans of America (PVA), has spotlighted UroMed founder Bert Burns and his family as part of their February 2012 issue. The article shares the story of two relationships that bloomed into successful marriages as a means of inspiration and hope for readers who also use wheelchairs.  Read the article, titled “Love Knows No Bounds” at